Minimalist wardrobes for adult women have become very trendy. But I’m frankly surprised to see this limited range. Everyone could benefit from a curated and thought-filled wardrobe.
Young boys wouldn’t be stuck in finicky pants when potty-training. They would wear clothes in good repair and sized for them. It would be easy for them to pick out their own combinations and dress themselves well. The independence they would get in return for the preparation put in would go a long way.
Parents would benefit from the confidence that their kid has enough clothes and would not be driven to shop due to a feeling or assumption of lack. When shopping is necessary, they would know exactly what they were looking for and this technique would allow them to hone in on what styles, sizes, shapes, (etc.) they prefer for their kid’s clothes.
Turning my sons’ wardrobes into minimalist capsules has been an eye opener. I used to rush off to buy more clothes for them whenever I worried they had nothing to wear. These trips were unorganized and I tended to return with more shirts when I needed new pants or a new jacket when they really needed socks. And I was only dimly aware of what made for a good pair of pants. Obviously, this approach was an unsustainable practice. Now, I feel unburdened and certain of exactly what they have.
Special Considerations For This Age Group
- Unless you’re very lucky in hand-me-downs (or a shop-a-holic), you will probably never need to “cull” a young boy’s wardrobe. This is because they grow out of sizes or damage their clothes so fast that the collection is pretty self-limiting.
- I’ve found it necessary to look in the reverse direction. How many clothes do I need to get through a week of regular activity?
- Your number needs to accommodate “accidents” as kids are generally potty training in these years.
- If your kid attends a pre-school or day care, the institution may require a small stash in addition to the wardrobe. Don’t count these additions because you may not see them for weeks or months at a time.
Fall/Winter Capsule for 2017 (2-5 year old boy)
I’m providing the list I use to keep my boys stocked as inspiration only. Your particular circumstances will shape your need. Climate, family activities, religious gear, and how often you do their laundry are a few factors that may alter your list.
Since I do diaper laundry (3x/week), I can throw any “accident” pants and underwear into the next batch of diapers. This list could easily support a once-per-week laundry schedule.
Coats / Jackets:
- Rain, light weight jacket
- Winter coat
- Sun hat / baseball cap
- Winter hat
- Snow pants
- Snow gloves
- Snow boots
- Athletic shoes
- “Nice” shoes
- 2 sweaters / hoodies
- 5 long-sleeved shirts
- 1-2 plain layering long-sleeved shirts
- 5 short-sleeved shirts
- 5 pairs of pants
- 5-7 pairs of “nice” socks
- 5 long-sleeved “play” shirts
- 5 short-sleeved “play” shirts
- 5 pairs of “play” pants
- 4-7 pairs of PJs
- 5-7 pairs of “play” socks
Emergency / Diaper Bag (*Double if attending day care or preschool) :
- 1 pair of pants
- 1 short-sleeved shirt
- 1 pair of socks
This is the biggest difference between kids from this age group and their younger and older counterparts. It is also highly individual. The following is my advice:
- I recommend keeping finicky pants and coveralls to a minimum if you keep any at all. I prefer to have simple elastic waist bands at this age.
- Get underwear with a little extra padding for potty training sessions. I have five pairs of these, but that might just be the bare minimum. I also keep normal underwear to supplement.
- Keep some diapers or pull ups (whether cloth or disposable) on hand for the night, for complicated days out, and for “off” time.
- I tend to start potty training at home only and keep diapers for outside the home and at bed time. This changes as we build the habit.
- Eventually, putting a kid in a diaper during the day time can work against potty training so this will have to be played by ear.
I believe it is important for kids to have some “play” clothes so that they can get completely absorbed in an activity and get messy without driving me crazy.
On My Loose Use of “Minimal”
I know this list doesn’t seem extremely “minimal”, but unlike adults, kids don’t often reuse laundry between washes (the clothes get really dirty) and doing their laundry multiple times a week can be stressful. I feel that this number strikes a nice balance.
Until Next Time, Happy Parenting!