Minimalist wardrobes for adult women have become very trendy. But I’m frankly surprised to see this limited range. Everyone could benefit from a curated and thought-filled wardrobe.
Young boys wouldn’t be stuck in finicky pants when potty-training. They would wear clothes in good repair and sized for them. It would be easy for them to pick out their own combinations and dress themselves well. The independence they would get in return for the preparation put in would go a long way.
Parents would benefit from the confidence that their kid has enough clothes and would not be driven to shop due to a feeling or assumption of lack. When shopping is necessary, they would know exactly what they were looking for and this technique would allow them to hone in on what styles, sizes, shapes, (etc.) they prefer for their son’s clothes.
Turning my sons’ wardrobes into minimalist capsules has been an eye opener. I used to rush off to buy more clothes for them whenever I worried they had nothing to wear. These trips were unorganized and I tended to return with more shirts when I needed new pants or a new jacket when they really needed socks. And I was only dimly aware of what made for a good pair of boy’s pants. Obviously, this approach was an unsustainable practice. Now, I feel unburdened and certain of exactly what they have.
Special Considerations For This Age Group
- Unless you’re very lucky in hand-me-downs (or a shop-a-holic), you will probably never need to “cull” a young boy’s wardrobe. This is because they grow out of sizes or damage their clothes so fast that the collection is pretty self-limiting.
- I’ve found it necessary to look in the reverse direction. How many clothes do I need to get through a week (and for some items, a year) of regular activity?
- Your number needs to accommodate “accidents” as kids are generally potty training in these years.
- If your kid attends a pre-school or day care, the institution may require a small stash in addition to your son’s minimalist wardrobe. Don’t count these additions because you may not see them for weeks or months at a time.
My List of Essentials
I’m providing the list I use to keep my boys stocked as inspiration only. Your particular circumstances will shape your need. Climate, family activities, religious gear, and how often you do their laundry are a few factors that may alter your list.
Since I do diaper laundry (3x/week), I can throw any “accident” pants and underwear into the next batch of diapers. For this reason, I only need to do the boys’ laundry once per week.
- 7-10 pairs of underwear
- 7-10 pairs of socks
- 1 pair of sunglasses
- 1 warm winter hat
- 1 summer sun hat
- 1 winter coat
- 1 rain/light jacket
- 1 pair of snow pants
- 1 pair of snow gloves/mittens (more waterproof)
- 1 pair of light gloves/mittens
- 1 pair of swim trunks
- 1 swim shirt
- 1 age/size appropriate PFD for swimming pools / boating (we do a lot of swimming and canoeing, otherwise we would just borrow as needed)
- 1 pair of winter boots
- 1 pair of sandals/flip flops/ light summer shoes (that can get wet)
- 1 pair of nice “school” shoes
- 1 pair of “play shoes (usually a worn out pair of “school shoes”
- 2 sweaters/hoodies
- 7 pairs of pajamas
- 1 plain long-sleeved shirt (to wear under short-sleeves when the weather is cooler)
- 7-10 pairs of pants*
- 7-10 pairs of shorts*
- 7-10 short-sleeved shirts*
- 7-10 long-sleeved shirts*
*I make sure that at least 5 of the 7-10 is nice enough for pre-school or other social activities. I believe it is important for kids to have some “play” clothes so that they can get completely absorbed in an activity and get messy without driving me crazy.
We prefer very simple, elastic waistbands for bathroom success.
We’re also fans of natural, plant-based fibers and used clothing. The vast majority of their clothing is from a local used clothing store.
On My Loose Use of “Minimal”
I know this list doesn’t seem extremely “minimal”, but unlike adults, kids don’t often reuse laundry between washes (the clothes get really dirty) and doing their laundry multiple times a week can be stressful. I feel that this number strikes a nice balance.
Until Next Time, Live Lightly!